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Watering Your Own Garden

Jun 25, 2026
4 min read
By Ray Borg

Scripture

"The generous soul will be made rich, and he who waters will also be watered himself." ~ Proverbs 11:25

Reflection:

Over the past couple of weeks, this verse, quoted in a daily devotional, has stayed with me. I found the idea intriguing and, in some ways, almost paradoxical. Generosity suggests giving freely and, from a human perspective, a depletion of resources. Yet Solomon connects generosity with becoming rich. At first glance, these concepts seem to stand in contrast to one another.

The thought is reinforced in the second part of the verse through the imagery of watering. Watering implies replenishment, growth, and fruitfulness. Rather than loss, Solomon presents a picture of abundance and renewal.

Solomon was known for his wisdom, and his counsel was sought by dignitaries and leaders from many nations. His words have endured through the generations because they contain timeless truths worthy of careful reflection. What wisdom was Solomon seeking to convey to his listeners, and what might these words still say to us today?

If we consider the opposite of generosity, qualities such as stinginess, selfishness, or tight-fistedness come to mind. These attitudes are often associated with lack and poverty. Interestingly, Solomon does not define generosity solely in financial terms. Instead, he uses familiar agricultural imagery to help his audience understand that generosity encompasses much more than simply giving away money.

As I have meditated on this verse, I have come to believe that Solomon was speaking to a deeper matter of the heart. A generous person may be someone who has learned to walk in a measure of freedom - freedom from fear, anxiety, scarcity thinking, and the internal pressures that often govern our money decisions. Such a person is no longer controlled by the belief that there will never be enough.

More importantly, they have addressed the spiritual issues surrounding wealth and possessions. They are no longer held captive by a spirit of poverty or mammon. Instead, they recognize the subtle ways these influences seek to manipulate, distract, and distort God's truth regarding provision and stewardship.

There is tremendous freedom when we are no longer mastered by money or the fears associated with it. We become free to trust God more fully and to care for others more generously.

Solomon appears to be revealing a spiritual principle of cause and effect: when we care for others, we ourselves are refreshed. When we pour into the lives of others, God has a way of replenishing what we have given.

The Living Bible expresses Solomon's words this way:

"It is possible to give away and become richer! It is also possible to hold on too tightly and lose everything. Yes, the liberal man shall be rich! By watering others, he waters himself."

These are encouraging words that challenge us to examine our own actions, spiritual direction, and fruitfulness. They remind us that God's economy often works differently from our own. What appears to be loss may actually be the pathway to blessing, and what seems like sacrifice may become a source of personal refreshment.

If those who water others are themselves watered, perhaps an important question remains:

How are you watering your own soul and spiritual life?

Reflection Questions:

1. Are there areas of your life where fear, anxiety, or a scarcity mindset influence your decisions?

2. How might God be inviting you to trust Him more fully with your resources, time, abilities, or relationships?

3. Is there someone in your life right now who could benefit from your encouragement, support, and generosity?

Prayer:

Heavenly Father,

Forgive me for the times where I have held back in my generosity and not been obedient to your voice. Forgive me for believing there will not be enough.

Teach me to walk in greater freedom in this area of my life so I can be generous with others so I can experience Your delight and joy in blessing others.

May I be found faithful in this area of my life and in so doing, honouring You.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen

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